sidestep all interference ...
Willing buyer, willing seller is an ideal
Buying and selling is emotionally driven and so is boy/girl, friends & family relationship
The negative effects of shopping therapy is excessive buying, made worse by compulsiveness
If, and when, your wallet can afford it, nobody and nothing get hurt
Finding the right partners in business and life is nearly impossible except if one, or all, are accommodating ~ ideal partners look out for one another
Greed, selfishness, ego and lackadaisical attitude almost always undermine any relationship
How to overcome relationship issues? Avoid the toxic ones
In the beginning, everyone hunts alone
It is the expectation of a larger harvest that resources are pooled and specialization kicks in ~ the factory concept that more are produced and traded
But, every industry & every aspect of life needs a Leader, either solely or to lead the pack
There will always be differences when you work with people - Theory X & Theory Y; the freeloaders vs the initiators
At extremes, Capitalism and Socialism are bad
At personal level, survival of the fittest warrants everyone to care and love oneself before extending your generosity to others & outsiders
We are taught to trust but many fell for scams and cheats because of trusts. Trust no one is a necessary survival kit
If you are not paid or rewarded materially or in kind for your efforts, don't do
Many are leeching on charity and charitable acts to enhance their own well being and wealth
Exploitation is the norm ~ politicians exploit the people's trusts, internet scams prey on human weaknesses and gullibility and weak people will almost always suffer exploitation
The world forward will be populated by the selfish, self-entitled, egoistic grandiose ~ those with grandiose narcissism; aggressive, dominant, and exaggerate their importance.
The best defense is NOT to give them any attention - ignore them completely
Whatever you don't receive or allow indulgence doesn't matter and never hurts
吃 - eat to live, not live to eat
喝 - drinking, without excessiveness, is poetic relieve & enjoyment
玩 - it's not just about play but to create a balance between the physical and your mind
乐 - pleasure without excessive indulgences develop a healthy balance of mind and body
You can do all the above by yourself, not necessarily with groups or others
Relieve yourself from bondage and nobody can enslave you
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