you will change when you're hurt deep enough...
放不下就是还可以扛着
I have witnessed many people waddling deep in dilemmas but repeating their chores, commitments and actions
Not that they are enjoying the sufferings but they plausibly think "things/he will change". Doing the same & expect a different result is a Fool's strategy
A compulsive gambler, serial drug addicts & abusive partners are least likely to change... one more time is untenable
The baby cries on arrival - knowing that his birth is the beginning of challenges, sufferings and acceptance
Upon death, the others cry - he has completed his finite lifespan, not necessarily fulfilling all that he wanted to achieve
Many who died yesterday have plans to do something today while those who die today have plans for many tomorrows... cherish every living moments
Live healthily, happily and avoid being drawn into others conflicts, especially the "none#of#your#business" - 瞎忙 - 无聊无底洞
Not that we lack compassion but the current environment is one of uncertainty, aggressiveness (scams & con), hopes (hopeful vs hopelessness) but 'home is where blessings are'; the only safe abode
When in doubt or mentally drained, take a walk in the park, along the coast or through the forest - Nature is therapeutic & restorative - the painless antidote to restore a balance of sanity
Many years ago, I was accused & gunned down at the peak of my career by overzealous authorities who schemed to gain from my downfall. They plotted & pinned a 'crime' on me by getting my deputy "to point her finger at me"! I have a choice to mount a costly & mentally draining fight (indicative legal fees S$2m over a two years fight) or PG & walked away with some damages - personal, reputational & financial. I chose the latter
I recoiled into my cocoon, walk away to reflect, take stock of the damages, reassess my 'ammunition & reserves', took a new path least traveled and returned a new-self after some years - it was never easy - 苦中做乐 活在当下
NOBODY, NObody, nobody will ever understand my journey through the darkness especially that I did not do anything wrong but I readily accept that "this world will never be equal" & let go...
Whatever decisions we make now, is the best; there is no time for regrets 世上没有后悔的药 也没有如果 只有结果和因果
Just live long enough to witness changes
[Charles lived & waited long enough to be King and Camilla, the Queen consort of the UK, so was Muhyiddin Yassin & Benjamin Netanyahu as PM]
When you fall, you have to pick yourself up; reality is always cruel. If you don't give yourself a chance, who will? 80% of the time, nobody's interested in your problem & 20% of the time, it's music to their ears
When you are down, lie low. Take enough time to recover, review your past, learn from it, reset your objectives and be ready. When opportunity presents, pounced!
The world loves a WINNER
